Most men cater to women’s needs mostly in the beginning stage of the relationship because they have an agenda in mind.
Women know that and they are used to it by countless men who are doing the exact same things in the hopes of getting in her skirt.
Therefore, most women attempt to see how much they can get away with before a champ would stand up to her and say NO.
Do not be afraid to set boundaries and limitations because if you don’t, she will. It then becomes a tug-of-war game between you and her, which you do not want to engage in simply because it is time-wasting, energy-consuming and you can’t win.
Subtle Ways To Turn Her Down
Be unavailable. If she is playing hard to get, don’t hesitate to turn her down. Cancel a date or call her an hour before you are supposed to meet and give her a lame excuse to cancel. They do that all the time to men, so why not turn the tables around and have her experience being in our seat.
Most guys say yes and agree with everything a woman proposes. I suggest in the beginning stage of attracting her to do a little mix of push and pull.
Meaning if she says “Let’s go here, let’s do that, can you pick me up? Are you available tomorrow? What are you doing?” the answer should be “NO” or “MAYBE”. Also, learn to answer the question with a question. Even if you can accommodate her request, learn not to agree with everything she says and learn not to make yourself too available.
Learn to say the magic word of “no” that most women are not used to hearing. Her daddy may have spoiled her with everything she wanted, giving her that Cinderella syndrome waiting for a prince to save her, but when she is out of line he had to say no. Therefore, it is good to be the fatherly figure to her at times.
The protector of her best interest. It is sexy and she will feel she can trust you.
For example, if she asked you if you want to meet tomorrow, you can say; “I can’t tomorrow, but I am available Thursday.” “Let’s not eat here, I have another place in = mind.” If you are kissing her, you be the first one to stop. If she asks why, simply say “Maybe later, if you’re a good girl.” If she asks you “do you like me?” say “Sometimes.” Or “It depends.” Keep her wondering “Is he into me? Is he not?” Push and pull!.
Some beautiful women with egos think all men want them. Be different than that. You can learn more how to do it in my book “Your Perfect Ten”.
